Real love is about finding the person that...

Real love is knowing someone's weaknesses and not taking advantage of them. Knowing their flaws & accepting who they are.

        Real love is about finding the person that will stick with you through the thick storms and the thin victories. Real love doesn't just take sacrifice, it is based on sacrifice. Real love is founded on the notion that sometimes you may have to give part of yourself to someone else in order for them to be able to make it through, with the understanding that this person will do the same thing for you in your toughest times. 

       Never allow yourself to remain in a relationship in which a person has proved over and over again that they aren't about this 'real love', because in short you are only wasting your time. 

      Find that person who is going to be there to pick you up when you fall, and not just there for you to help them when they do the same. 

       Don't pretend, find someone that you can trust, someone who is patient, and someone who seeks to understand.

The greatest weakness of humans......

"The greatest weakness of most humans is their hesitancy to tell others how they love them while they're alive."
                   Being able to tell someone how you feel is a very difficult challenge, especially when it is the first time telling them. Although it is not feasible for every moment of our life to be planned, sometimes planning your words, especially when you are relaying your feelings to someone is the best way to handle things. In order for you to tell someone that you love them, you cant be looking forward to telling them, seeking for them to say the same in return. 

                 If you are doing this just to see a persons reaction then you are probably doing it for the wrong reason. You should only tell someone that you love them when you know in your heart that you do. Of course we all want the person we love to love us back, but getting our feelings off of our chest shouldn't be a ploy to gauge where someone eases feelings. Whatever you do be confident in the fact that you love this person, and know that whatever happens after you tell them how you feel, just happens.

A relationship with no trust is like a cell phone......

"A relationship with no trust is like a cell phone with no service, all you can do is play games."
         Having someone to trust is one of the greatest tools a person can have in life. The trust between two human beings is one of the most wondrous reactions that two people can easily share. When we trust someone we are basically able to give them as much love as we want to knowing that they will only use this love wisely, and will never use this love against us. 

When we deal with people we know we can trust, we know that we have someone that we can confide in with any given secret in our lives, and know that it will not ever be leaked. We know that we could give them the shirts off of our back if they needed it, and that they would give us the shirt off of their back if we needed it. Trust is one of the biggest relationship makers and breakers, because with trust a relationship is able to grow, and without trust a relationship will crumble.
            

Beauty Might Bring Happiness But Happiness Always Brings Beauty

The way that the world functions today, we tend to think that our beauty is made up solely of the person that we see when we look in the mirror. Little do we realize our beauty is made up of the person that we are inside, not the person that we are on the outside. If we only allow people in our lives that only appreciate us for our beauty on the outside, we will never have real friendships or love. 

With that being said, the way we feel about the image we present to the world can greatly affect our confidence and the way we deal with people. Some of us may think that we weight too much, some of us may think our nose is too big or that our eyes are too wide. Too overcome this we have to challenge society, and tell ourselves that despite whatever everyone else says we know that we are beautiful. Try not avoiding the mirrors and every morning after you wash your face and every night before you go to bed, look in the mirror and tell yourself out loud that you are beautiful!

I miss everything that used to be what happened?

Dear you, I miss you. I miss how you cared for me, how you always make my day, how you used to cheer me up, and how you make me feel that you love me. I miss everything that used to be what happened? Love, me.

Have you ever had to take a step back and ask yourself who the person is that you have become? Some of us have and some of us are even on the road to becoming someone that we know we truly arent at our hearts level. Right now examine the things that you do most weekly. Do you spend a majority of your time with people that are taking you towards whatever dreams or goals that you may have for yourself, or do you spend time with people who are dragging you down to where they want you to be instead of encouraging you to be where you want to be. Be honest with yourself today and really take a close look at where you are going in life, and if you feel like you arent going where you need to go, it is time to change the things in your life needed to turn your life around. This week take bold steps in advancing towards change, and remember only you can make that change!