Real love is about finding the person that...

Real love is knowing someone's weaknesses and not taking advantage of them. Knowing their flaws & accepting who they are.

        Real love is about finding the person that will stick with you through the thick storms and the thin victories. Real love doesn't just take sacrifice, it is based on sacrifice. Real love is founded on the notion that sometimes you may have to give part of yourself to someone else in order for them to be able to make it through, with the understanding that this person will do the same thing for you in your toughest times. 

       Never allow yourself to remain in a relationship in which a person has proved over and over again that they aren't about this 'real love', because in short you are only wasting your time. 

      Find that person who is going to be there to pick you up when you fall, and not just there for you to help them when they do the same. 

       Don't pretend, find someone that you can trust, someone who is patient, and someone who seeks to understand.

The greatest weakness of humans......

"The greatest weakness of most humans is their hesitancy to tell others how they love them while they're alive."
                   Being able to tell someone how you feel is a very difficult challenge, especially when it is the first time telling them. Although it is not feasible for every moment of our life to be planned, sometimes planning your words, especially when you are relaying your feelings to someone is the best way to handle things. In order for you to tell someone that you love them, you cant be looking forward to telling them, seeking for them to say the same in return. 

                 If you are doing this just to see a persons reaction then you are probably doing it for the wrong reason. You should only tell someone that you love them when you know in your heart that you do. Of course we all want the person we love to love us back, but getting our feelings off of our chest shouldn't be a ploy to gauge where someone eases feelings. Whatever you do be confident in the fact that you love this person, and know that whatever happens after you tell them how you feel, just happens.

A relationship with no trust is like a cell phone......

"A relationship with no trust is like a cell phone with no service, all you can do is play games."
         Having someone to trust is one of the greatest tools a person can have in life. The trust between two human beings is one of the most wondrous reactions that two people can easily share. When we trust someone we are basically able to give them as much love as we want to knowing that they will only use this love wisely, and will never use this love against us. 

When we deal with people we know we can trust, we know that we have someone that we can confide in with any given secret in our lives, and know that it will not ever be leaked. We know that we could give them the shirts off of our back if they needed it, and that they would give us the shirt off of their back if we needed it. Trust is one of the biggest relationship makers and breakers, because with trust a relationship is able to grow, and without trust a relationship will crumble.
            

Beauty Might Bring Happiness But Happiness Always Brings Beauty

The way that the world functions today, we tend to think that our beauty is made up solely of the person that we see when we look in the mirror. Little do we realize our beauty is made up of the person that we are inside, not the person that we are on the outside. If we only allow people in our lives that only appreciate us for our beauty on the outside, we will never have real friendships or love. 

With that being said, the way we feel about the image we present to the world can greatly affect our confidence and the way we deal with people. Some of us may think that we weight too much, some of us may think our nose is too big or that our eyes are too wide. Too overcome this we have to challenge society, and tell ourselves that despite whatever everyone else says we know that we are beautiful. Try not avoiding the mirrors and every morning after you wash your face and every night before you go to bed, look in the mirror and tell yourself out loud that you are beautiful!

I miss everything that used to be what happened?

Dear you, I miss you. I miss how you cared for me, how you always make my day, how you used to cheer me up, and how you make me feel that you love me. I miss everything that used to be what happened? Love, me.

Have you ever had to take a step back and ask yourself who the person is that you have become? Some of us have and some of us are even on the road to becoming someone that we know we truly arent at our hearts level. Right now examine the things that you do most weekly. Do you spend a majority of your time with people that are taking you towards whatever dreams or goals that you may have for yourself, or do you spend time with people who are dragging you down to where they want you to be instead of encouraging you to be where you want to be. Be honest with yourself today and really take a close look at where you are going in life, and if you feel like you arent going where you need to go, it is time to change the things in your life needed to turn your life around. This week take bold steps in advancing towards change, and remember only you can make that change!

Successful Relationship Requires

 A successful relationship requires falling in love many times, always with the same person but deeper and deeper every time. 

Falling in love is the easiest part of any relationship, maintaining that relationship is the most difficult part. It is the job of both people participating in the relationship to keep the relationship as interesting as possible. During a relationship things will fizzle down, as with anything we do in life, nothing lasts forever unless you make it last. The feelings of love we first share when we first fall in love are actually a result of natural chemicals in our body being released, and overtime our bodies release less and less of these chemicals. 

So in order to re-ignite the spark we can do a variety of things. Maybe you can try to spice things up by sending your lover on a wild goose chase, and end the chase with a romantic picnic or candlelit dinner at the place where you had your first kiss, or where you first met. Surprise your lover in the morning with breakfast in bed, a nice set of flowers, and a card just to tell them in print how you still feel about them. Make an intense gesture of love by planning a romantic getaway for your lover on your own birthday, citing that without them there on your birthday, you wouldn't even want to celebrate. There are many other things that you can do for your lover as well to make the love keep flowing, just use your heart and the creative ideas will flow.

 Most relationships tend to fail. Not because of absence of love. Love is always present. It's just that one was being loved too much and the other wasn't being love enough. 

A relationship is a contract usually between two people connecting them emotionally and physically. Most relationships are started with the intentions of a couple spending the rest of their lives together but not all relationships work out. There are a variety of causes to the ending of a relationship including but not limited to: a cheating partner, a controlling partner, an abusive partner, a lack of communication from both partners, and partners becoming "burnt out" or tired of one another. 

In all of these causes to the ending of a relationship the key seems to be a deprivation of the binding glue of a relationship, love. Love is what holds a relationship together and when one or both individuals participating in said relationship lose the amount of love they once had for one another, or the love they once had for themselves, the partner/s resort to relationship ending tactics such as cheating, and abuse.

The fish said: "I can't see my tears because I'm in the water."

The water said: "I can feel your tears because you're in my heart."

Lesson: We may hide our own hurts and pains but never can we lie to the people who cares for us the most. Words aren't needed for them to know how we are.

I want to love someone whose heart has been broken, so that he knows exactly how it feels and won't break mine.

A Broken Heart Open To Love

"A woman who opens their heart to love you, when it's already broken, is braver than any person you'll meet." -                                                                                                          Steven Benson.

Being brave is being courageous enough to act while your past failures tell you that you cant. We will all be broken at some point in life, some more than others, but the true test of a persons heart is not if they are willing to be defeated, but it lies instead in how many times we are willing to get up. 

When your heart tells you that it has love to spread, let it flow. Use your brain, and dont make totally irrational decisions, but when the time is right seize it. Even if this time is much sooner than you expected.

There will be many opportunities to take life head on if we look for them, and choosing to love someone who we hope will love us in the same way, is one of them. This is a step in life that is difficult to be brave about in. Choosing to love someone should never be taken lightly. But at the end of the day, you cant help who your heart chooses to love. Use courage, and believe what your heart tells you.

Meaning Of true Love

Real love is knowing someone's weaknesses and not taking advantage of them. Knowing their flaws & accepting who they are.

Real love is about finding the person that will stick with you through the thick storms and the thin victories. Real love doesn't just take sacrifice, it is based on sacrifice. Real love is founded on the notion that sometimes you may have to give part of yourself to someone else in order for them to be able to make it through, with the understanding that this person will do the same thing for you in your toughest times.

Never allow yourself to remain in a relationship in which a person has proved over and over again that they aren't about this 'real love', because in short you are only wasting your time.

Find that person who is going to be there to pick you up when you fall, and not just there for you to help them when they do the same.

Don't pretend, find someone that you can trust, someone who is patient, and someone who seeks to understand.

Being single and feeling lonely is better than being married

Choose your spouse carefully. Being single and feeling lonely is better than being married and feeling lonely.

This quote may be founded upon older principles but it is my belief that this is a truth that will help people for generations to come. Things these days are different in our society and it seems that marriage is just another form of life that people are instantly gratified of when it happens, but it is an institution that has lost importance in the minds and hearts of people because so many of them fail.

Never get married for the wrong reasons, often times you can feel in your heart what exactly the wrong reasons are. When you are truly in love with someone it will be way too hard to even imagine life without him or her.

 

If someone isn't the right one for you, don't drag out the relationship and lead the other person on. Likewise, be willing to make the bold move of committing to be with someone forever when you know that it is real. After all, life is much too short to live unhappily.

Truly love someone, then they never leave your heart

If you truly love someone, then they never leave your heart, only your side.

When someone is truly happy with a person they are involved with, the mere thought of their lover will give them a smile. It is such a great feeling to know that you are with someone who just lights up your world with one thought, and it is also important to note that having someone in your life as such is really a blessing that not everyone is able to say they have. When you have someone that makes you smile when you think of them, be sure to work hard in your relationship with them so that they will smile when they think of you as well.

 

Remember that if someone really loves you they will only want you to be and act at all times as yourself. Also one must note to never take things for granted. Handle every day and every time with them, as it could be your last, because you never know if it might be or not. Most of all, walk in love in everything that you do, doing so will make your life and your relationships flow with ease and happiness.

 

 

love yourself to become a new person

Sometimes you have to kind of die inside in order to rise from your own ashes and believe in yourself and love yourself to become a new person.

There are some instances in our lives that we will be forced to decide to move on from a situation rather than to hold on to something that will ultimately distract and stop us from achieving what we envisioned for ourselves in life.

 

To be successful in life, we have to commit to living an active life. Some relationships and other circumstances that are part of our lives now, will weigh us down too much and not allow us to keep progressing forward in life.

 

One principle we must all remember is that to obtain success, we must be willing to keep moving, even when there are parts of our lives that we always thought were vital arent able to go along with us.

 

Be willing to let the old parts of you go when the time is right. Only you know what is in your heart, and only you know what is truly holding you back from reaching greatness, make the best decisions for you and for what is in your heart.

 

doesn't need to be perfect Love.....

Love doesn't need to be perfect it just needs to be true.

Love isn't something that causes everything in two people's lives to all of a sudden become perfect. What makes love so powerful is the fact that it can help make a situation that isn't at all perfect, a situation involving two imperfect people, and putting them together in a manner that perfectly supports them and in a manner that helps to encourage both parties to grow.

 

Many go through their relationships mistakenly thinking that everything should happens as they miraculously do in the movies, and end up dooming their relationships before these relationships are given a really good chance to start.

 

Don't give in to the trials and tribulations that you will surely face in your relationships, remember that any relationship worth keeping is worth fighting for. Keep fighting for your love, because though love is not perfect, it is perfect in its imperfection.





way you treat yourself.....

The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others on how you demand to be treated. Don't settle for anything other than respect.

You are more than just a name; you are a great spirit inside of a physical body. Recognizing greatness inside you isn't always the easiest thing to manage to do, especially since there are so many things that we are able to do that we tend to give these things much less focus. For instance, we breath thousands of breaths each day without even thinking about it once throughout the day. Breathing is key to us staying alive, yet it is such a part of a normal everyday lives that we don't even look at this process as incredible, or even much pay attention to it at all.
In a sense this is what we do with our lives overall as well. We take for granted how special we are, and how much greatness that we have inside of us. If you've been full of doubt lately, turn it around. Remember that you are great, and that you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you.

Never chase love, affection or attention......

Never chase love, affection or attention. If it isnt given freely by another person it isnt worth having.

If you feel yourself starting to yearn attention and begging for love then something may be severely wrong in your relationship. The problem most likely doesn't rely in the dynamic of the whole relationship, but instead more in the individual participants of the relationship.

We all want to be loved, and though we all show our love for each other differently, we can't just up and change from the way that we showed love in the beginning to not being loving at all.

If you look at many successful relationships you will notice a common theme from both participants. That is, they never stopped trying to make each other feel how they did when they first got together.

Keeping fresh fun ways to show your love for your significant other is crucial to making each other feel loved and appreciated, so be sure never to slack in this department! Everyone wants to be loved without having to ask for it!

Promote what you love instead of bashing what you hate.

People hate when they feel as though their efforts haven't been, and probably won't be as adequate as what they see someone else doing. It is instinctual for people to challenge other people who seem to have a slight edge on themselves, but that doesn't mean we should not work hard at loving each other, instead of stubbornly clinging to hate.
Instead of giving focus to things that you don't agree with, we should give our best amount of time, and best amount of effort loving and living out our dreams. There is a limited amount of time on this earth, and tomorrow is never promised. Get rid of the hate before it becomes too late.
We must make a concerted effort to get over what angers us, to forgive those who have done wrong to us, to be happy for what other people have and for what other people do, and to keep a peaceful hardworking resolve towards our dreams.