Real love is about finding the person that...

Real love is knowing someone's weaknesses and not taking advantage of them. Knowing their flaws & accepting who they are.

        Real love is about finding the person that will stick with you through the thick storms and the thin victories. Real love doesn't just take sacrifice, it is based on sacrifice. Real love is founded on the notion that sometimes you may have to give part of yourself to someone else in order for them to be able to make it through, with the understanding that this person will do the same thing for you in your toughest times. 

       Never allow yourself to remain in a relationship in which a person has proved over and over again that they aren't about this 'real love', because in short you are only wasting your time. 

      Find that person who is going to be there to pick you up when you fall, and not just there for you to help them when they do the same. 

       Don't pretend, find someone that you can trust, someone who is patient, and someone who seeks to understand.

The greatest weakness of humans......

"The greatest weakness of most humans is their hesitancy to tell others how they love them while they're alive."
                   Being able to tell someone how you feel is a very difficult challenge, especially when it is the first time telling them. Although it is not feasible for every moment of our life to be planned, sometimes planning your words, especially when you are relaying your feelings to someone is the best way to handle things. In order for you to tell someone that you love them, you cant be looking forward to telling them, seeking for them to say the same in return. 

                 If you are doing this just to see a persons reaction then you are probably doing it for the wrong reason. You should only tell someone that you love them when you know in your heart that you do. Of course we all want the person we love to love us back, but getting our feelings off of our chest shouldn't be a ploy to gauge where someone eases feelings. Whatever you do be confident in the fact that you love this person, and know that whatever happens after you tell them how you feel, just happens.

A relationship with no trust is like a cell phone......

"A relationship with no trust is like a cell phone with no service, all you can do is play games."
         Having someone to trust is one of the greatest tools a person can have in life. The trust between two human beings is one of the most wondrous reactions that two people can easily share. When we trust someone we are basically able to give them as much love as we want to knowing that they will only use this love wisely, and will never use this love against us. 

When we deal with people we know we can trust, we know that we have someone that we can confide in with any given secret in our lives, and know that it will not ever be leaked. We know that we could give them the shirts off of our back if they needed it, and that they would give us the shirt off of their back if we needed it. Trust is one of the biggest relationship makers and breakers, because with trust a relationship is able to grow, and without trust a relationship will crumble.
            

Successful Relationship Requires

 A successful relationship requires falling in love many times, always with the same person but deeper and deeper every time. 

Falling in love is the easiest part of any relationship, maintaining that relationship is the most difficult part. It is the job of both people participating in the relationship to keep the relationship as interesting as possible. During a relationship things will fizzle down, as with anything we do in life, nothing lasts forever unless you make it last. The feelings of love we first share when we first fall in love are actually a result of natural chemicals in our body being released, and overtime our bodies release less and less of these chemicals. 

So in order to re-ignite the spark we can do a variety of things. Maybe you can try to spice things up by sending your lover on a wild goose chase, and end the chase with a romantic picnic or candlelit dinner at the place where you had your first kiss, or where you first met. Surprise your lover in the morning with breakfast in bed, a nice set of flowers, and a card just to tell them in print how you still feel about them. Make an intense gesture of love by planning a romantic getaway for your lover on your own birthday, citing that without them there on your birthday, you wouldn't even want to celebrate. There are many other things that you can do for your lover as well to make the love keep flowing, just use your heart and the creative ideas will flow.

 Most relationships tend to fail. Not because of absence of love. Love is always present. It's just that one was being loved too much and the other wasn't being love enough. 

A relationship is a contract usually between two people connecting them emotionally and physically. Most relationships are started with the intentions of a couple spending the rest of their lives together but not all relationships work out. There are a variety of causes to the ending of a relationship including but not limited to: a cheating partner, a controlling partner, an abusive partner, a lack of communication from both partners, and partners becoming "burnt out" or tired of one another. 

In all of these causes to the ending of a relationship the key seems to be a deprivation of the binding glue of a relationship, love. Love is what holds a relationship together and when one or both individuals participating in said relationship lose the amount of love they once had for one another, or the love they once had for themselves, the partner/s resort to relationship ending tactics such as cheating, and abuse.

Keep a Relationship Working in 15 way.......

 1. Love each other

2. Don't lie

3. Keep communication open

4. Stay sweet

5. When you get hurt just forgive and forget

6. Never talk about break-ups

7. Never say it's okay even when it's not

8. Forget about "pride"

9. If you say sorry mean it

10. Don't compare your past with your present

11. Don't talk about your stupid ex's

12. Give and take process

13. Beware of his/her feelings

14. When you had a fight, don't let the day pass

15. Don't be the perfect one, be the right one 

Following these steps are vital to keep a relationship afloat. Many people don't realize that a relationship requires a lot of work and that the work just doesn't end when the relationship starts. Of course some of these points are just plain common sense, of course we are not to lie, cheat, or be dishonest with our relationship partner but there are things on this list that we don't always remember to do. 

A lot of times in relationships we may apologize in order to get our loved one off our back at the time, but not be sincere about our apology. It is important to be sincere about anytime you apologize for future references, apologizing should be reserved for times when you are truly sorry. 

An important aspect of a relationship that everyone doesn't think about too much is having your relationship partner's back. When you are in a relationship with someone and you betray them, whether if they know about it or not, you are destined to sink your relationship. 

When your in a relationship a good rule to abide by is not to do anything to your significant other that you wouldn't want your significant other to do to you.

Apologizing Doesn't Mean That You're Wrong

 Apologizing doesn't always mean that you're wrong and the other person is right. It just means that you value your relationship more than your ego. 

We must remember an apology isn't an apology unless it's meaningful! If your apology isn't sincere and you're just apologizing to avoid an argument then that can just lead to more damage. Also you can't just apologize for everything, you have to know what you're apologizing for. You have to be able to admit you're in the wrong and mean it. Apologizing can be very relieving for all parties involved including yourself.

A Broken Heart Open To Love

"A woman who opens their heart to love you, when it's already broken, is braver than any person you'll meet." -                                                                                                          Steven Benson.

Being brave is being courageous enough to act while your past failures tell you that you cant. We will all be broken at some point in life, some more than others, but the true test of a persons heart is not if they are willing to be defeated, but it lies instead in how many times we are willing to get up. 

When your heart tells you that it has love to spread, let it flow. Use your brain, and dont make totally irrational decisions, but when the time is right seize it. Even if this time is much sooner than you expected.

There will be many opportunities to take life head on if we look for them, and choosing to love someone who we hope will love us in the same way, is one of them. This is a step in life that is difficult to be brave about in. Choosing to love someone should never be taken lightly. But at the end of the day, you cant help who your heart chooses to love. Use courage, and believe what your heart tells you.

Meaning Of true Love

Real love is knowing someone's weaknesses and not taking advantage of them. Knowing their flaws & accepting who they are.

Real love is about finding the person that will stick with you through the thick storms and the thin victories. Real love doesn't just take sacrifice, it is based on sacrifice. Real love is founded on the notion that sometimes you may have to give part of yourself to someone else in order for them to be able to make it through, with the understanding that this person will do the same thing for you in your toughest times.

Never allow yourself to remain in a relationship in which a person has proved over and over again that they aren't about this 'real love', because in short you are only wasting your time.

Find that person who is going to be there to pick you up when you fall, and not just there for you to help them when they do the same.

Don't pretend, find someone that you can trust, someone who is patient, and someone who seeks to understand.

If you love someone, tell them....

If you love someone, tell them. For hearts are often broken by words left unspoken.

Every day that passes by on this Earth that we have life in, is simply a blessing. No one can predict the date and exact time that they will go to meet their maker, but we do know that death is inevitable. One of the most important things we can do in our lives is to make it a point to tell people what is on our hearts. There have been so many who regret not telling people how they really felt, or how much they cared for them before they passed.

 

The pain that many experience because of this regret can be very intense because you realize that all it would have took to change the regret you are feeling in the moment, is a little more initiative on your part. Refuse to live with regret, and refuse to be ruled by the fear of telling someone something that they may not reciprocate. Tell people how you feel while you still have the time to.

Being single and feeling lonely is better than being married

Choose your spouse carefully. Being single and feeling lonely is better than being married and feeling lonely.

This quote may be founded upon older principles but it is my belief that this is a truth that will help people for generations to come. Things these days are different in our society and it seems that marriage is just another form of life that people are instantly gratified of when it happens, but it is an institution that has lost importance in the minds and hearts of people because so many of them fail.

Never get married for the wrong reasons, often times you can feel in your heart what exactly the wrong reasons are. When you are truly in love with someone it will be way too hard to even imagine life without him or her.

 

If someone isn't the right one for you, don't drag out the relationship and lead the other person on. Likewise, be willing to make the bold move of committing to be with someone forever when you know that it is real. After all, life is much too short to live unhappily.

Truly love someone, then they never leave your heart

If you truly love someone, then they never leave your heart, only your side.

When someone is truly happy with a person they are involved with, the mere thought of their lover will give them a smile. It is such a great feeling to know that you are with someone who just lights up your world with one thought, and it is also important to note that having someone in your life as such is really a blessing that not everyone is able to say they have. When you have someone that makes you smile when you think of them, be sure to work hard in your relationship with them so that they will smile when they think of you as well.

 

Remember that if someone really loves you they will only want you to be and act at all times as yourself. Also one must note to never take things for granted. Handle every day and every time with them, as it could be your last, because you never know if it might be or not. Most of all, walk in love in everything that you do, doing so will make your life and your relationships flow with ease and happiness.

 

 

A true love is a perfect love.........

Love doesn't need to be perfect, it just needs to be true.

 A true love is a perfect love, because it bonds together two people who are imperfect! There are a few stages in love, and by the last stage, two different people grow such a bond together that their lives are ultimately planned around one another's. A true love will do a lot for the parties involved. It will certainly make both parties involved feel good about their lives, and their selves.

It will give each other a respect that both parties deserve, and will protect each party's dignity, through the thick and through the easier times as well. Love has a lot of things that it needs to be, but perfect isn't one of them, because nobody will ever go through life without making a mistake. It just needs to be true enough so that it will conquer the mistakes, so that it will outlast the bad times, and so that it will be exceedingly joyous in the good times. The main characteristic of an everlasting love is that it is true!

Life is full of opportunity..........

If you love someone, tell him or her. Forget about the rules or the fear of looking ridiculous. What is truly ridiculous is passing up on an opportunity to tell someone that your heart is invested in him or her.

 Life is full of opportunity, if we don't seize the ones that we know our hearts want us to, then what exactly are we doing? We have to let our pride and ego in many instances in life, especially when it relates to showing our feelings to someone that we care about. We never really know what a person may say when we tell them that we love them, but we can't let that hold us back.

By telling them your true feelings you are better able to determine if you should keep investing your feelings somewhere. Either you will grow from taking this risk, or whatever you have may be gone. As long as you are thinking of saying "I love you" because you truly in your heart love this person you have nothing to worry about. Whatever the case, you will be much better off by being honest and open with your feelings.

Love knows no distance

Love knows no distance.

When you really love someone, there is no amount of distance between you two that can stop you from loving him or her. Real love doesn't just fade away or turn off like the switching on and off of a light, even though many of us would like for it to when things start to go wrong, or when the love you feel is causing you pain, but we must remember that there are always risks in giving someone your heart.

Instead of sulking and letting negative, or depressing emotional states rule your life when your relationships aren't going the way you like, give focus to the things that you can do to make the relationship function as healthily as possible.

Just because your partner isn't next to you, doesn't mean that you can't make them feel loved. Give them some spontaneity in their life by just calling to tell them you love them every once in a while, send a heartfelt handwritten letter in the mail, or surprise them with your presence even if it is only for a short while.

Every relationship is hard work, including long distance relationships, and the key is to consistently show your love in different ways.

Love comes to you just at the right time..........

The best kinds of relationships begin unexpectedly. When you get the astonished feeling & everything happens so suddenly. That's why you don't look for love. It comes to you just at the right time; the time you never thought it would have.

 The best kinds of relationships are the relationships that happen because they are unforced. Unforced relationships can be some of the best relationships because they come at the right time, even when we don't realize it.

When we are ready to move on, new doors will open, and opportunities will start to appear. Sometimes enlightenment just comes with different parts of life, and it will even come through meeting new people. Like everything else in life, any relationship involving loving someone else dearly, will require a lot of work, and it may not always be hard, but one must be willing to remain consistent in his or her efforts.

But sometimes, two people in totally different seasons in life, come together like a whirlwind, and remain together forever. These relationships arent only rare in the fact that they rarely last, but are made even more special when they do, because the people in these relationships are genuinely happier than those who are in more forced relationships.

Sometimes, we are only given a few minutes......

Sometimes, we are only given a few minutes to be with the one we love, and a thousand hours to spend thinking of them.

We may never really know why things are happening the way they do, and why we aren't given the time we wish we had with the people we love. Sometimes we are only given a limited amount of time to be with the one we love, and are left to spend what seems like an eternity thinking about them.

When we are forced to wait for someone because of the tentacles that love has over us, we are forced to deal with the simple fact that loneliness will creep in. Not being able to see their lovers for most is much more than just a difficult part of loving someone who isn't there, it is often times what causes a relationship to crumble from its root.

Think about animals in the wild, who for the most part will mate again after their first mate is gone from their lives. This is important to note because there are some species who will only remain loyal to their first mate, or the mate they have loved most. You never know when someone will be taken from your life, and for how long, but you can consistently love him or her as much as you can, with whatever distance is between you both.

You are love. You yourself ......

"You are love. You yourself as much as anybody in the entire universe, 

deserve your love and 

affection."

 You are love is an expression meaning that you are what you choose to be. In a sense if you choose to be love you are choosing to walk in love at all times. Meaning you are choosing to be positive, and make choices in your everyday life that are relative to and the represent someone that walks in love in everything they do. Choosing to be love and to walk in love is not an easy lifestyle to live.

The temptation of doing things that seem to be instinctual or ingrained in our flesh would be an easier life to live as it would be living off of our impulsive thinking, instead of living life doing what we know in our hearts is the right thing to do. Today we should all make a concerted effort to live our lives walking in love. Meaning, we must choose to be positive when our circumstances call for us to be negative, we must resist urges and temptations to do whats wrong, and we must try with everything inside of us to walk in love with every step that we make in our lives.

People can say whatever they want to, but every action they make will.......

" Loving someone who doesn't love you back is like hugging a cactus. The tighter you hold on, the more it's going to hurt."

 One thing that we must all learn when pursuing relationships is that we must commit to someone who is choosing to honor our commitment with the same intensity level. Never give someone the whole cow who only wants a glass of milk.

Though we may wish the best of people, and hope that all people display actions that show that they are inherently good people, the simple fact of the matter is that some people will take advantage of you if you allow for them to.

In order to avoid blurred lines in a relationship, a person has to be willing to be honest with themselves and accept a person's actions before they are willing to accept their words. People can say whatever they want to, but every action they make will either help to prove or disprove the statements that they would like for you to believe.

Some people are meant to fall in love......

" Some people are meant to fall in love with each other, but not meant to be together."

 In relationships sometimes we get so acquainted with and so use to dealing with the wrong people that we choose to overlook the fact that they probably aren't the right person for us to be with. Just because someone has our heart doesn't exactly mean that they are the right person for our lives.

If a person doesn't help you to become a better you consistently over time, chances are they aren't right for you. If a person only brings you down instead of encouraging you to fly, chances are they arent right for you.

Never believe what a person says when their actions towards you and everyone prove that they aren't who they proclaim to be. Some people are miserable with themselves, and only want for others to be in their lives so that they can try to step on them for leverage to elevate their own lives, don't be fooled.