Real love is about finding the person that...

Real love is knowing someone's weaknesses and not taking advantage of them. Knowing their flaws & accepting who they are.

        Real love is about finding the person that will stick with you through the thick storms and the thin victories. Real love doesn't just take sacrifice, it is based on sacrifice. Real love is founded on the notion that sometimes you may have to give part of yourself to someone else in order for them to be able to make it through, with the understanding that this person will do the same thing for you in your toughest times. 

       Never allow yourself to remain in a relationship in which a person has proved over and over again that they aren't about this 'real love', because in short you are only wasting your time. 

      Find that person who is going to be there to pick you up when you fall, and not just there for you to help them when they do the same. 

       Don't pretend, find someone that you can trust, someone who is patient, and someone who seeks to understand.

The greatest weakness of humans......

"The greatest weakness of most humans is their hesitancy to tell others how they love them while they're alive."
                   Being able to tell someone how you feel is a very difficult challenge, especially when it is the first time telling them. Although it is not feasible for every moment of our life to be planned, sometimes planning your words, especially when you are relaying your feelings to someone is the best way to handle things. In order for you to tell someone that you love them, you cant be looking forward to telling them, seeking for them to say the same in return. 

                 If you are doing this just to see a persons reaction then you are probably doing it for the wrong reason. You should only tell someone that you love them when you know in your heart that you do. Of course we all want the person we love to love us back, but getting our feelings off of our chest shouldn't be a ploy to gauge where someone eases feelings. Whatever you do be confident in the fact that you love this person, and know that whatever happens after you tell them how you feel, just happens.

A relationship with no trust is like a cell phone......

"A relationship with no trust is like a cell phone with no service, all you can do is play games."
         Having someone to trust is one of the greatest tools a person can have in life. The trust between two human beings is one of the most wondrous reactions that two people can easily share. When we trust someone we are basically able to give them as much love as we want to knowing that they will only use this love wisely, and will never use this love against us. 

When we deal with people we know we can trust, we know that we have someone that we can confide in with any given secret in our lives, and know that it will not ever be leaked. We know that we could give them the shirts off of our back if they needed it, and that they would give us the shirt off of their back if we needed it. Trust is one of the biggest relationship makers and breakers, because with trust a relationship is able to grow, and without trust a relationship will crumble.
            

Never Lose Your Hopes and Dreams.......

         "Hopes and Dreams are like teardrops in the rain, they get lost in reality."

Isn't it funny how as children we have the biggest amount of expectation for our lives when we grow older, but only a small amount of us actually follow and accomplish our dreams, while the rest of us are stuck working jobs that we know aren't really too fulfilling. Even with a day job there is still time after work to pursue a dream. Giving yourself a push forward each day whether that push be big or small will help keep your dream alive. Also to ensure you are pursuing your hopes and dreams correctly and in the best manner possible it is imperative to educate yourself on your dream before and even after it is achieved. 

Through life's difficulties and challenges it easy for us to lose sight of our hopes and dreams and to make our reality as everyone elses reality is. It takes a strong will, a massive dedication of time, a fair amount of natural born talent, and a superb plan, but with all of these factors in check our hopes and dreams can and will be made a reality.

Motivational Quotes

 1. Happiness is a direction, not a destination.
-Unknown

2. Decide that you want it more than you are afraid of it.
-Bill Cosby

3. Love yourself.

4. Where there is love, there is life.
-Gandhi

5. The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.
-Eleanor Roosevelt

6. The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra.
-Jimmy Johnson

7. An eye for an eye only makes the world blind.
-Gandhi

8. Bring deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
-Lao Tzu

9. Happiness depends upon ourselves.
-Aristole

10. If you're doing your best, you won't have time to worry about failure.
-H. Jackson Brown Jr

11. The purpose of life is a life of purpose.
-Robert Byrne

12. We can't solve problems by using the same thinking we used to create them.
-Albert Einstein

Five Simple Steps For Happiness

 Five Simple Rules For Happiness: 

1. Free your heart from hatred. 

2. Free your mind from worries. 

3. Live simply. 

4. Give more. 

5. Expect less. 

Happiness is a state of mind that cannot be put in words but has to be experienced. Life can be made full of joy and happiness if it is understood the right way. As sorrow becomes halved when shared with others, happiness becomes doubled when you share it with your loved ones. Happiness cannot be curtailed or confined to one single concept. 

There are various things that cause happiness depending upon the mentality of the person. If millions of dollars can cause happiness to a reason, the beautiful bloom of rose or the smile of a small baby can bring unbound happiness to another. The following quotes give an idea of the vast diversity of things in life that are responsible for bringing happiness. But in a nutshell, happiness can be brought about by change of mind or attitude or alteration in the perspective but it is one thing in life that cannot be bought by money.

A Broken Heart Open To Love

"A woman who opens their heart to love you, when it's already broken, is braver than any person you'll meet." -                                                                                                          Steven Benson.

Being brave is being courageous enough to act while your past failures tell you that you cant. We will all be broken at some point in life, some more than others, but the true test of a persons heart is not if they are willing to be defeated, but it lies instead in how many times we are willing to get up. 

When your heart tells you that it has love to spread, let it flow. Use your brain, and dont make totally irrational decisions, but when the time is right seize it. Even if this time is much sooner than you expected.

There will be many opportunities to take life head on if we look for them, and choosing to love someone who we hope will love us in the same way, is one of them. This is a step in life that is difficult to be brave about in. Choosing to love someone should never be taken lightly. But at the end of the day, you cant help who your heart chooses to love. Use courage, and believe what your heart tells you.

Meaning Of true Love

Real love is knowing someone's weaknesses and not taking advantage of them. Knowing their flaws & accepting who they are.

Real love is about finding the person that will stick with you through the thick storms and the thin victories. Real love doesn't just take sacrifice, it is based on sacrifice. Real love is founded on the notion that sometimes you may have to give part of yourself to someone else in order for them to be able to make it through, with the understanding that this person will do the same thing for you in your toughest times.

Never allow yourself to remain in a relationship in which a person has proved over and over again that they aren't about this 'real love', because in short you are only wasting your time.

Find that person who is going to be there to pick you up when you fall, and not just there for you to help them when they do the same.

Don't pretend, find someone that you can trust, someone who is patient, and someone who seeks to understand.

If you love someone, tell them....

If you love someone, tell them. For hearts are often broken by words left unspoken.

Every day that passes by on this Earth that we have life in, is simply a blessing. No one can predict the date and exact time that they will go to meet their maker, but we do know that death is inevitable. One of the most important things we can do in our lives is to make it a point to tell people what is on our hearts. There have been so many who regret not telling people how they really felt, or how much they cared for them before they passed.

 

The pain that many experience because of this regret can be very intense because you realize that all it would have took to change the regret you are feeling in the moment, is a little more initiative on your part. Refuse to live with regret, and refuse to be ruled by the fear of telling someone something that they may not reciprocate. Tell people how you feel while you still have the time to.

Being single and feeling lonely is better than being married

Choose your spouse carefully. Being single and feeling lonely is better than being married and feeling lonely.

This quote may be founded upon older principles but it is my belief that this is a truth that will help people for generations to come. Things these days are different in our society and it seems that marriage is just another form of life that people are instantly gratified of when it happens, but it is an institution that has lost importance in the minds and hearts of people because so many of them fail.

Never get married for the wrong reasons, often times you can feel in your heart what exactly the wrong reasons are. When you are truly in love with someone it will be way too hard to even imagine life without him or her.

 

If someone isn't the right one for you, don't drag out the relationship and lead the other person on. Likewise, be willing to make the bold move of committing to be with someone forever when you know that it is real. After all, life is much too short to live unhappily.

way you treat yourself.....

The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others on how you demand to be treated. Don't settle for anything other than respect.

You are more than just a name; you are a great spirit inside of a physical body. Recognizing greatness inside you isn't always the easiest thing to manage to do, especially since there are so many things that we are able to do that we tend to give these things much less focus. For instance, we breath thousands of breaths each day without even thinking about it once throughout the day. Breathing is key to us staying alive, yet it is such a part of a normal everyday lives that we don't even look at this process as incredible, or even much pay attention to it at all.
In a sense this is what we do with our lives overall as well. We take for granted how special we are, and how much greatness that we have inside of us. If you've been full of doubt lately, turn it around. Remember that you are great, and that you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you.

Never chase love, affection or attention......

Never chase love, affection or attention. If it isnt given freely by another person it isnt worth having.

If you feel yourself starting to yearn attention and begging for love then something may be severely wrong in your relationship. The problem most likely doesn't rely in the dynamic of the whole relationship, but instead more in the individual participants of the relationship.

We all want to be loved, and though we all show our love for each other differently, we can't just up and change from the way that we showed love in the beginning to not being loving at all.

If you look at many successful relationships you will notice a common theme from both participants. That is, they never stopped trying to make each other feel how they did when they first got together.

Keeping fresh fun ways to show your love for your significant other is crucial to making each other feel loved and appreciated, so be sure never to slack in this department! Everyone wants to be loved without having to ask for it!

Stand Up For Something, Even If It Means Standing Alone

 Stand up for something, even if it means standing alone. Because often times, the one who flies solo has the strongest wings.

One principle that we must learn in our lives is that it is way easier to believe and stand for something, than not to believe in anything and fall for everything. If there is something you believe in, really believe in it, with a firm unwavering faith. Life has its ups and its downs, and life will at many times try to discourage you from holding on to what roots you, and to what helps to support your foundation in it.

Never waiver, and never stop believing. It is much better to believe and stand for something, than to believe in nothing and really have nothing happen. Be one of the few who doesn't just say that they believe in something until they are tested, believe in what makes you strong until you can no longer believe anymore, for it is this belief, and this drive that will take you places that only people who are courageous enough to keep believing, can go.

Do Not Let The Opinions Of Others Consume You

"Do not let the opinions of others consume you."

 When we choose to let the opinions of others matter too much to us, then we are choosing to let their opinions consume us. Instead of living your life worried about what others may think or feel about what you are doing, live your life to the best of your ability, with the things that are in your heart and not someone else's heart.

One thing we must all learn in life is that the more that we are productive, and the more that our light and our soul is shown to the world, there are always going to be those who will speak against us, even if most times they have no justification or right to do so.

Any time there is a positive force of production in the world, there will be negative forces to try to stop, by speaking against it, and trying to persuade it in any way possible to stop. Never let the opinions of others consume you, live your life, and live to be as great as you possibly may become.

Whether You Think You Can Or Think You Can't You're Right

" Whether you think you can or think you can't you're right."

 What you do in this world is what you choose to believe that you can do. I know, we have all heard the saying "you can be anything that you put your mind to" but this saying is so clich� because it is very true.

Your life is what you make it. If you choose to wallow in your failures, and if you choose to submit to you defeats, then chances are you won't have much victory or success in your life. If instead you choose to learn from the parts of life that you don't do so well in, and if you choose to continue to keep getting up after life knocks you down, failure will only be in your life for a limited amount of time, and success will be in your life substantially. But you are only going to harvest the seeds in life that you have sown, make sure that you plant the right ones.

Dedicate Your Life To Becoming Better

" I will not die an unlived life. I will not live in fear of falling or catching fire. I choose to inhabit my days, to allow my living to open me, to make me less afraid, more accessible, to loosen my heart until it becomes a wing, a torch, a promise. I choose to risk my significance, to live so that which comes to me as seed goes to the next as blossom and that which comes to me as blossom, goes on as fruit." -Dawn Markova

 Every day is a day that we can be doing something important to us. We can't get baffled by life and all of the options that we have to choose from on an everyday basis. In whatever we do we have to be consistent. No matter what we do we have to be willing to give the same effort towards the things that we really care about on a habitual basis. What you decide to do is up to you, just be sure to do something relating to your core beliefs, and what you think that life means.

We have to dedicate our lives to becoming better and better in the areas that we believe to be most important. Only then will you be able to live openly without fear, and to sow seeds that will produce good fruit! Consistently sow from the heart, and you will consistently reap great harvests.

A true love is a perfect love.........

Love doesn't need to be perfect, it just needs to be true.

 A true love is a perfect love, because it bonds together two people who are imperfect! There are a few stages in love, and by the last stage, two different people grow such a bond together that their lives are ultimately planned around one another's. A true love will do a lot for the parties involved. It will certainly make both parties involved feel good about their lives, and their selves.

It will give each other a respect that both parties deserve, and will protect each party's dignity, through the thick and through the easier times as well. Love has a lot of things that it needs to be, but perfect isn't one of them, because nobody will ever go through life without making a mistake. It just needs to be true enough so that it will conquer the mistakes, so that it will outlast the bad times, and so that it will be exceedingly joyous in the good times. The main characteristic of an everlasting love is that it is true!

You are love. You yourself ......

"You are love. You yourself as much as anybody in the entire universe, 

deserve your love and 

affection."

 You are love is an expression meaning that you are what you choose to be. In a sense if you choose to be love you are choosing to walk in love at all times. Meaning you are choosing to be positive, and make choices in your everyday life that are relative to and the represent someone that walks in love in everything they do. Choosing to be love and to walk in love is not an easy lifestyle to live.

The temptation of doing things that seem to be instinctual or ingrained in our flesh would be an easier life to live as it would be living off of our impulsive thinking, instead of living life doing what we know in our hearts is the right thing to do. Today we should all make a concerted effort to live our lives walking in love. Meaning, we must choose to be positive when our circumstances call for us to be negative, we must resist urges and temptations to do whats wrong, and we must try with everything inside of us to walk in love with every step that we make in our lives.

Love The Wrong Person............

"Sometimes we need to know what love feels like when it's wrong before we can truly appreciate it, when it's right."

Life is full of crazy experiences, and this is true especially in our love life's if we take an honest look at them as well. Many times we don't end up with the person that we may have always thought we would end our lives with. Sometimes the first person we love isn't the right fit for us, but he or she is definitely a big teaching tool that we use to gauge our experiences for almost forever.

Though it gets tough to think about losing someone that you thought is supposed to be in your life forever, we must believe in the fact that everyone is not for us. Some people are truly only with you until you reach a certain amount of growth in your life, because sometimes people can grow apart. Be able to learn from your past relationships, and never be so stuck in something that you let it kill you slowly. Stick with the relationships and experiences that help you thrive in life.

Tell Them........If you love someone

"If you love someone, tell them. For hearts are often broken by words left unspoken."

 Every day that passes by on this Earth that we have life in, is simply a blessing. No one can predict the date and exact time that they will go to meet their maker, but we do know that death is inevitable. One of the most important things we can do in our lives is to make it a point to tell people what is on our hearts. There have been so many who regret not telling people how they really felt, or how much they cared for them before they passed.

The pain that many experience because of this regret can be very intense because you realize that all it would have took to change the regret you are feeling in the moment, is a little more initiative on your part. Refuse to live with regret, and refuse to be ruled by the fear of telling someone something that they may not reciprocate. Tell people how you feel while you still have the time to.