True love isn't only based on the things that two people…

"True love isn't only based on the things that two people go through together,
but it is also based on how real and how hard two people work at loving each other."

True love isn't only based on the things that two people go through
together, but it is also based on how real and how hard two people work
at loving each other. Love is a difficult emotion for many to handle
because though it is easy to fall in love with someone, it is very hard to
maintain that love for the rest of a couples lifetime.
In order for two people to remain true in the love that they have for each
other, they must be willing to work very hard at it. In the instance in
which two people stop putting effort into loving one another the love that
they share will soon start to crumble. As in all things in life putting forth
a legitimate amount of effort and determination towards loving someone
is the best way to ensure that one is being the best lover possible to
their partner.

After reading, the next step is to really think about what the Bible is saying…

After reading, the next step is to really think about what the Bible is saying. This may seem
obvious, but there is a difference between letting your mind wander over a few verses or
chapters and trying to figure out what it means.
Have you ever been to the Grand Canyon? There are some people who drive up to the edge,
jump out of their car, poke around for a few minutes, maybe take a few pictures, and then head
off to the gift shop to buy T-shirts or snow globes to take to their friends back home.
There are others who spend an entire day seated quietly away from the noisy tourists, simply
watching from their own private spot. That may sound boring, but to some, the Grand Canyon
is a place of incredible beauty and power – one quick look isn’t enough. They want to soak it
in. And those people will often come back year after year, to sit in that same spot – and every
time, they see a different show.
You can think about the Bible in the same way. You can read a sentence or two, quickly
decide what they mean and make a mental check next to them, and then head off to the gift
shop.
Or, you can spend days and weeks (or even months) meditating on what a particular passage
is really talking about – turning it over in your mind, reflecting on it, soaking it in. You can
consider what those words mean against the changing backdrop of real life – of your life. You
can begin to perceive the importance and subtle meaning of each word that’s found its way
from God to you. You can learn to identify the sound of God’s voice as you get to know him
better. You can think about them from all sorts of different viewpoints, even putting yourself in
the shoes of the characters you’re reading about. You can certainly ask the Author to help you
soak it all in: “With your very own hands you formed me; now breathe your wisdom over me so
I can understand you” (Psalm 119). God and his thoughts are so complex, with so many
aspects and perspectives, that you can come back to his words again and again.
This way of thinking about the Bible is talked about in a number of places in the Bible.
Perhaps the best example can be found in Psalm 1: “You thrill to God’s Word. You chew on it
day and night.” It’s not like a meal that you gulp down before you head out the door to do
what you really want to do.
This is the five-star meal that you savor – with your mind, your heart, and your soul. It’s the
main event, and you have the opportunity to spend hours at the table relishing each bite.
“I ponder every morsel of wisdom from you, I attentively watch how you’re done it. I relish
everything you’ve told me of life, I won’t forget a word of it… My soul is starved and hungry,
ravenous! – insatiable for your nourishing commands….Your words are so choice, so tasty; I
prefer them to the best home cooking.” (Psalm 119)