A true love is a perfect love.........

Love doesn't need to be perfect, it just needs to be true.

 A true love is a perfect love, because it bonds together two people who are imperfect! There are a few stages in love, and by the last stage, two different people grow such a bond together that their lives are ultimately planned around one another's. A true love will do a lot for the parties involved. It will certainly make both parties involved feel good about their lives, and their selves.

It will give each other a respect that both parties deserve, and will protect each party's dignity, through the thick and through the easier times as well. Love has a lot of things that it needs to be, but perfect isn't one of them, because nobody will ever go through life without making a mistake. It just needs to be true enough so that it will conquer the mistakes, so that it will outlast the bad times, and so that it will be exceedingly joyous in the good times. The main characteristic of an everlasting love is that it is true!

Life is full of opportunity..........

If you love someone, tell him or her. Forget about the rules or the fear of looking ridiculous. What is truly ridiculous is passing up on an opportunity to tell someone that your heart is invested in him or her.

 Life is full of opportunity, if we don't seize the ones that we know our hearts want us to, then what exactly are we doing? We have to let our pride and ego in many instances in life, especially when it relates to showing our feelings to someone that we care about. We never really know what a person may say when we tell them that we love them, but we can't let that hold us back.

By telling them your true feelings you are better able to determine if you should keep investing your feelings somewhere. Either you will grow from taking this risk, or whatever you have may be gone. As long as you are thinking of saying "I love you" because you truly in your heart love this person you have nothing to worry about. Whatever the case, you will be much better off by being honest and open with your feelings.

Love knows no distance

Love knows no distance.

When you really love someone, there is no amount of distance between you two that can stop you from loving him or her. Real love doesn't just fade away or turn off like the switching on and off of a light, even though many of us would like for it to when things start to go wrong, or when the love you feel is causing you pain, but we must remember that there are always risks in giving someone your heart.

Instead of sulking and letting negative, or depressing emotional states rule your life when your relationships aren't going the way you like, give focus to the things that you can do to make the relationship function as healthily as possible.

Just because your partner isn't next to you, doesn't mean that you can't make them feel loved. Give them some spontaneity in their life by just calling to tell them you love them every once in a while, send a heartfelt handwritten letter in the mail, or surprise them with your presence even if it is only for a short while.

Every relationship is hard work, including long distance relationships, and the key is to consistently show your love in different ways.

Love comes to you just at the right time..........

The best kinds of relationships begin unexpectedly. When you get the astonished feeling & everything happens so suddenly. That's why you don't look for love. It comes to you just at the right time; the time you never thought it would have.

 The best kinds of relationships are the relationships that happen because they are unforced. Unforced relationships can be some of the best relationships because they come at the right time, even when we don't realize it.

When we are ready to move on, new doors will open, and opportunities will start to appear. Sometimes enlightenment just comes with different parts of life, and it will even come through meeting new people. Like everything else in life, any relationship involving loving someone else dearly, will require a lot of work, and it may not always be hard, but one must be willing to remain consistent in his or her efforts.

But sometimes, two people in totally different seasons in life, come together like a whirlwind, and remain together forever. These relationships arent only rare in the fact that they rarely last, but are made even more special when they do, because the people in these relationships are genuinely happier than those who are in more forced relationships.

Sometimes, we are only given a few minutes......

Sometimes, we are only given a few minutes to be with the one we love, and a thousand hours to spend thinking of them.

We may never really know why things are happening the way they do, and why we aren't given the time we wish we had with the people we love. Sometimes we are only given a limited amount of time to be with the one we love, and are left to spend what seems like an eternity thinking about them.

When we are forced to wait for someone because of the tentacles that love has over us, we are forced to deal with the simple fact that loneliness will creep in. Not being able to see their lovers for most is much more than just a difficult part of loving someone who isn't there, it is often times what causes a relationship to crumble from its root.

Think about animals in the wild, who for the most part will mate again after their first mate is gone from their lives. This is important to note because there are some species who will only remain loyal to their first mate, or the mate they have loved most. You never know when someone will be taken from your life, and for how long, but you can consistently love him or her as much as you can, with whatever distance is between you both.

You are love. You yourself ......

"You are love. You yourself as much as anybody in the entire universe, 

deserve your love and 

affection."

 You are love is an expression meaning that you are what you choose to be. In a sense if you choose to be love you are choosing to walk in love at all times. Meaning you are choosing to be positive, and make choices in your everyday life that are relative to and the represent someone that walks in love in everything they do. Choosing to be love and to walk in love is not an easy lifestyle to live.

The temptation of doing things that seem to be instinctual or ingrained in our flesh would be an easier life to live as it would be living off of our impulsive thinking, instead of living life doing what we know in our hearts is the right thing to do. Today we should all make a concerted effort to live our lives walking in love. Meaning, we must choose to be positive when our circumstances call for us to be negative, we must resist urges and temptations to do whats wrong, and we must try with everything inside of us to walk in love with every step that we make in our lives.

People can say whatever they want to, but every action they make will.......

" Loving someone who doesn't love you back is like hugging a cactus. The tighter you hold on, the more it's going to hurt."

 One thing that we must all learn when pursuing relationships is that we must commit to someone who is choosing to honor our commitment with the same intensity level. Never give someone the whole cow who only wants a glass of milk.

Though we may wish the best of people, and hope that all people display actions that show that they are inherently good people, the simple fact of the matter is that some people will take advantage of you if you allow for them to.

In order to avoid blurred lines in a relationship, a person has to be willing to be honest with themselves and accept a person's actions before they are willing to accept their words. People can say whatever they want to, but every action they make will either help to prove or disprove the statements that they would like for you to believe.

Some people are meant to fall in love......

" Some people are meant to fall in love with each other, but not meant to be together."

 In relationships sometimes we get so acquainted with and so use to dealing with the wrong people that we choose to overlook the fact that they probably aren't the right person for us to be with. Just because someone has our heart doesn't exactly mean that they are the right person for our lives.

If a person doesn't help you to become a better you consistently over time, chances are they aren't right for you. If a person only brings you down instead of encouraging you to fly, chances are they arent right for you.

Never believe what a person says when their actions towards you and everyone prove that they aren't who they proclaim to be. Some people are miserable with themselves, and only want for others to be in their lives so that they can try to step on them for leverage to elevate their own lives, don't be fooled.

Love yourself and be proud........

"Love yourself and be proud of everything that you do, even your mistakes. Because even mistakes mean you're trying."

 Learning to love yourself is key in truly embodying and truly becoming the great person you are. Though sometimes life seems to be a bit scary when we are all alone, we have to believe in the fact that when we learn to persevere alone, we learn a lot about ourselves and the journey in life that is our destiny.

We are destined to do tremendous things, and knowing this we have to be willing to continue to fight for our destinies, no matter who is around us. Sometimes we will be alone in life, but it is in these times that we are truly able to learn a lot about ourselves and a lot about who we are destined to become.

Never think of being alone as a depressing time. Seek God, meditate and pray unceasingly for in actuality with God you are never alone. He will speak to you and he will guide you out of darkness into a life filled with positivity, love, peace, and great friendships.

Almost guarantee that she doesn't care anymore...........

"When a woman no longer get frustrated and upset with you, you can almost guarantee that she doesn't care anymore"

When one person in a relationship is tired of another, they will start to care less and less about things that could potentially make the relationship worse. For many women, and men as well, this is a mechanism that we internally flip when we have already received adequate damage to our hearts. After a person is heart it is harder for them to trust the person who hurt them, especially if the person continues to hurt them over and over again.

Instead of seeking to make our mates jealous or emotional when things seem to be going wrong, we must seek to repair the relationship by applying real love to it as much as possible. Relationships aren't card games, we should never try to force their hand. There are no games involved in true love because real love can never be used as a device for hate.

Love The Wrong Person............

"Sometimes we need to know what love feels like when it's wrong before we can truly appreciate it, when it's right."

Life is full of crazy experiences, and this is true especially in our love life's if we take an honest look at them as well. Many times we don't end up with the person that we may have always thought we would end our lives with. Sometimes the first person we love isn't the right fit for us, but he or she is definitely a big teaching tool that we use to gauge our experiences for almost forever.

Though it gets tough to think about losing someone that you thought is supposed to be in your life forever, we must believe in the fact that everyone is not for us. Some people are truly only with you until you reach a certain amount of growth in your life, because sometimes people can grow apart. Be able to learn from your past relationships, and never be so stuck in something that you let it kill you slowly. Stick with the relationships and experiences that help you thrive in life.

Tell Them........If you love someone

"If you love someone, tell them. For hearts are often broken by words left unspoken."

 Every day that passes by on this Earth that we have life in, is simply a blessing. No one can predict the date and exact time that they will go to meet their maker, but we do know that death is inevitable. One of the most important things we can do in our lives is to make it a point to tell people what is on our hearts. There have been so many who regret not telling people how they really felt, or how much they cared for them before they passed.

The pain that many experience because of this regret can be very intense because you realize that all it would have took to change the regret you are feeling in the moment, is a little more initiative on your part. Refuse to live with regret, and refuse to be ruled by the fear of telling someone something that they may not reciprocate. Tell people how you feel while you still have the time to.

Choose your spouse carefully.............

"Choose your spouse carefully. Being single and feeling lonely is better than being married and feeling lonely."

 This quote may be founded upon older principles but it is my belief that this is a truth that will help people for generations to come. Things these days are different in our society and it seems that marriage is just another form of life that people are instantly gratified of when it happens, but it is an institution that has lost importance in the minds and hearts of people because so many of them fail.

Never get married for the wrong reasons, often times you can feel in your heart what exactly the wrong reasons are. When you are truly in love with someone it will be way too hard to even imagine life without him or her.

If someone isn't the right one for you, don't drag out the relationship and lead the other person on. Likewise, be willing to make the bold move of committing to be with someone forever when you know that it is real. After all, life is much too short to live unhappily.

truly love someone..................

"If you truly love someone, then they never leave your heart, only your side."

When someone is truly happy with a person they are involved with, the mere thought of their lover will give them a smile. It is such a great feeling to know that you are with someone who just lights up your world with one thought, and it is also important to note that having someone in your life as such is really a blessing that not everyone is able to say they have. When you have someone that makes you smile when you think of them, be sure to work hard in your relationship with them so that they will smile when they think of you as well.

Remember that if someone really loves you they will only want you to be and act at all times as yourself. Also one must note to never take things for granted. Handle every day and every time with them, as it could be your last, because you never know if it might be or not. Most of all, walk in love in everything that you do, doing so will make your life and your relationships flow with ease and happiness. 

Love Quotes.....

When love is real, it finds a way.

 When I tell you I love you, I don't say it out of habit. I say it to remind you that you are the best thing that has ever happened to me.

To Become A New Person And Better Person You Must Love Yourself

"Sometimes you have to kind of die inside in order to rise from your own ashes and believe in yourself and love yourself to become a new person"

There are some instances in our lives that we will be forced to decide to move on from a situation rather than to hold on to something that will ultimately distract and stop us from achieving what we envisioned for ourselves in life.

To be successful in life, we have to commit to living an active life. Some relationships and other circumstances that are part of our lives now, will weigh us down too much and not allow us to keep progressing forward in life.

One principle we must all remember is that to obtain success, we must be willing to keep moving, even when there are parts of our lives that we always thought were vital arent able to go along with us.

Be willing to let the old parts of you go when the time is right. Only you know what is in your heart, and only you know what is truly holding you back from reaching greatness, make the best decisions for you and for what is in your heart.

Love Doesn't Need To Be ............

"Love Doesn't Need To Be Perfect It Just Needs To Be True"

 Love isn't something that causes everything in two people's lives to all of a sudden become perfect. What makes love so powerful is the fact that it can help make a situation that isn't at all perfect, a situation involving two imperfect people, and putting them together in a manner that perfectly supports them and in a manner that helps to encourage both parties to grow.

Many go through their relationships mistakenly thinking that everything should happens as they miraculously do in the movies, and end up dooming their relationships before these relationships are given a really good chance to start.

Don't give in to the trials and tribulations that you will surely face in your relationships, remember that any relationship worth keeping is worth fighting for. Keep fighting for your love, because though love is not perfect, it is perfect in its imperfection.

For instance, we breath thousands of breaths each day without even thinking about......

"The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others on how you demand to be treated. Don't settle for anything other than respect"

 You are more than just a name; you are a great spirit inside of a physical body. Recognizing greatness inside you isn't always the easiest thing to manage to do, especially since there are so many things that we are able to do that we tend to give these things much less focus. For instance, we breath thousands of breaths each day without even thinking about it once throughout the day. Breathing is key to us staying alive, yet it is such a part of a normal everyday lives that we don't even look at this process as incredible, or even much pay attention to it at all.

In a sense this is what we do with our lives overall as well. We take for granted how special we are, and how much greatness that we have inside of us. If you've been full of doubt lately, turn it around. Remember that you are great, and that you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you.

Seize every day as an adventure.........

 "Seize every day as an adventure and your spirit will soar when you discover the wonderful surprises life has to offer"

In keeping a positive attitude and mindset in our everyday lives we must face life with a tough resolve. Though in life there will always be our responsibilities, we must go through life on our journey to greatness and the achievement of our dreams, with our game face on. Face life as if you have nothing to lose, because in reality you dont. If your mindset is positive enough you will never suffer another defeat in your life, because you will be able confront life and everything that it challenges you with knowing that every bit of it is a learning experience, even your failures.

Take risks, seize each day, and instead of trying to go around life's hurdles, go through them. There is no challenge or difficulty too small or too big for you not to be able to conquer it, as long as you keep a positive, upbeat attitude.

भर भर थाल मोगरा बेला ,माँलिनिया ले आई ...................

भर भर थाल मोगरा बेला ,माँलिनिया ले आई
                                बन्दनवार बना फूलन से ,ड्योढी दई सजाई
                             नंदगांव गमका सुगंध से , प्रमुदित लोग लुगाई   ! अरे माई --------
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    नंद लुटावें कनक धान गुड़ रबडी खीर मलाई   !   
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nnd duare naubt baje aur bje shahnaaii  
rtn jdit chndn plne pr sohe kishn knhaii
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