If you love someone, tell them....

If you love someone, tell them. For hearts are often broken by words left unspoken.

Every day that passes by on this Earth that we have life in, is simply a blessing. No one can predict the date and exact time that they will go to meet their maker, but we do know that death is inevitable. One of the most important things we can do in our lives is to make it a point to tell people what is on our hearts. There have been so many who regret not telling people how they really felt, or how much they cared for them before they passed.

 

The pain that many experience because of this regret can be very intense because you realize that all it would have took to change the regret you are feeling in the moment, is a little more initiative on your part. Refuse to live with regret, and refuse to be ruled by the fear of telling someone something that they may not reciprocate. Tell people how you feel while you still have the time to.

Being single and feeling lonely is better than being married

Choose your spouse carefully. Being single and feeling lonely is better than being married and feeling lonely.

This quote may be founded upon older principles but it is my belief that this is a truth that will help people for generations to come. Things these days are different in our society and it seems that marriage is just another form of life that people are instantly gratified of when it happens, but it is an institution that has lost importance in the minds and hearts of people because so many of them fail.

Never get married for the wrong reasons, often times you can feel in your heart what exactly the wrong reasons are. When you are truly in love with someone it will be way too hard to even imagine life without him or her.

 

If someone isn't the right one for you, don't drag out the relationship and lead the other person on. Likewise, be willing to make the bold move of committing to be with someone forever when you know that it is real. After all, life is much too short to live unhappily.

Truly love someone, then they never leave your heart

If you truly love someone, then they never leave your heart, only your side.

When someone is truly happy with a person they are involved with, the mere thought of their lover will give them a smile. It is such a great feeling to know that you are with someone who just lights up your world with one thought, and it is also important to note that having someone in your life as such is really a blessing that not everyone is able to say they have. When you have someone that makes you smile when you think of them, be sure to work hard in your relationship with them so that they will smile when they think of you as well.

 

Remember that if someone really loves you they will only want you to be and act at all times as yourself. Also one must note to never take things for granted. Handle every day and every time with them, as it could be your last, because you never know if it might be or not. Most of all, walk in love in everything that you do, doing so will make your life and your relationships flow with ease and happiness.

 

 

love yourself to become a new person

Sometimes you have to kind of die inside in order to rise from your own ashes and believe in yourself and love yourself to become a new person.

There are some instances in our lives that we will be forced to decide to move on from a situation rather than to hold on to something that will ultimately distract and stop us from achieving what we envisioned for ourselves in life.

 

To be successful in life, we have to commit to living an active life. Some relationships and other circumstances that are part of our lives now, will weigh us down too much and not allow us to keep progressing forward in life.

 

One principle we must all remember is that to obtain success, we must be willing to keep moving, even when there are parts of our lives that we always thought were vital arent able to go along with us.

 

Be willing to let the old parts of you go when the time is right. Only you know what is in your heart, and only you know what is truly holding you back from reaching greatness, make the best decisions for you and for what is in your heart.

 

doesn't need to be perfect Love.....

Love doesn't need to be perfect it just needs to be true.

Love isn't something that causes everything in two people's lives to all of a sudden become perfect. What makes love so powerful is the fact that it can help make a situation that isn't at all perfect, a situation involving two imperfect people, and putting them together in a manner that perfectly supports them and in a manner that helps to encourage both parties to grow.

 

Many go through their relationships mistakenly thinking that everything should happens as they miraculously do in the movies, and end up dooming their relationships before these relationships are given a really good chance to start.

 

Don't give in to the trials and tribulations that you will surely face in your relationships, remember that any relationship worth keeping is worth fighting for. Keep fighting for your love, because though love is not perfect, it is perfect in its imperfection.





way you treat yourself.....

The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others on how you demand to be treated. Don't settle for anything other than respect.

You are more than just a name; you are a great spirit inside of a physical body. Recognizing greatness inside you isn't always the easiest thing to manage to do, especially since there are so many things that we are able to do that we tend to give these things much less focus. For instance, we breath thousands of breaths each day without even thinking about it once throughout the day. Breathing is key to us staying alive, yet it is such a part of a normal everyday lives that we don't even look at this process as incredible, or even much pay attention to it at all.
In a sense this is what we do with our lives overall as well. We take for granted how special we are, and how much greatness that we have inside of us. If you've been full of doubt lately, turn it around. Remember that you are great, and that you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you.

Never chase love, affection or attention......

Never chase love, affection or attention. If it isnt given freely by another person it isnt worth having.

If you feel yourself starting to yearn attention and begging for love then something may be severely wrong in your relationship. The problem most likely doesn't rely in the dynamic of the whole relationship, but instead more in the individual participants of the relationship.

We all want to be loved, and though we all show our love for each other differently, we can't just up and change from the way that we showed love in the beginning to not being loving at all.

If you look at many successful relationships you will notice a common theme from both participants. That is, they never stopped trying to make each other feel how they did when they first got together.

Keeping fresh fun ways to show your love for your significant other is crucial to making each other feel loved and appreciated, so be sure never to slack in this department! Everyone wants to be loved without having to ask for it!

Promote what you love instead of bashing what you hate.

People hate when they feel as though their efforts haven't been, and probably won't be as adequate as what they see someone else doing. It is instinctual for people to challenge other people who seem to have a slight edge on themselves, but that doesn't mean we should not work hard at loving each other, instead of stubbornly clinging to hate.
Instead of giving focus to things that you don't agree with, we should give our best amount of time, and best amount of effort loving and living out our dreams. There is a limited amount of time on this earth, and tomorrow is never promised. Get rid of the hate before it becomes too late.
We must make a concerted effort to get over what angers us, to forgive those who have done wrong to us, to be happy for what other people have and for what other people do, and to keep a peaceful hardworking resolve towards our dreams.